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1. Quick & dirty question about online dating: What’s the best next step after texting? Audio message? Phone call? Video date? Or a quick, in-person meet-up? I recommend a quick video call — a brief ...

I’m a 37-year-old man with a 35-year-old partner. We are both cisgender gay men. Whatever physical/sexual intimacy we shared in the beginning of our nearly three-year relationship is long gone. He now ...

There is more to this week’s Savage Love. To read the entire column, go to Savage.Love. I’m a 71-year-old gay man married to a much younger man. That’s all fine, not relevant so much as just info. 15 ...

There is more to this week’s Savage Love. To read the entire column, go to Savage.Love. I’m a 31-year-old cis man married to a 33-year-old non-binary partner, and our relationship has always been very ...