Christine Benz is director of personal finance and retirement planning for Morningstar, Inc. She is also the author of a new book, How to Retire: 20 Lessons for a Happy, Successful, and Wealthy ...

When we make love my husband likes me to dress up in bra, stockings, and suspenders. But now he's gone one further and wants me to dress him up like this and to make him up like a tart.

He should have told you about his need to cross dress before, not after your marriage. It was unfair and must make his request come as rather a shock. Men wanting to dress in women's clothes are ...